The Eggplant Washing Trick That Changes Everything 🍆

Let's start with a confession.

Most of us learned everything we know about oral from movies, rumors, and someone who confidently told us they knew what they were doing.

The good news?

Great oral isn't about being an expert. It's about paying attention, communicating, and remembering that enthusiasm goes a long way.

Here are a few of my favorite tips that people rarely talk about.

For the Eggplant: Slow Down

One of the biggest mistakes people make is thinking faster automatically means better. Spoiler alert: it doesn't.

Try:

• Starting slower than you think you should.
• Using your hands and mouth together instead of relying on one or the other.
• Paying attention to breathing, sounds, and body language.
• Varying pressure and pace rather than doing the exact same thing for five straight minutes.

The goal isn't to set a speed record. It's to build anticipation and pay attention to what gets the best reaction.

For the Lady Taco: This Is Not a DJ Booth

Ladies, back me up here. The goal is not to scratch a lottery ticket.

One of the biggest game changers for many women is slower, lighter, more consistent movement.

Try:

• Gentle circles instead of rapid back-and-forth movement.
• Starting around the area before focusing directly on the most sensitive spots.
• Maintaining a rhythm once you find something that works.
• Asking questions and paying attention to body language.

Sometimes less really is more.

Communication Is the Ultimate Cheat Code

Want the secret that beats every technique?

Ask.

Questions like:

• "Do you like that?"
• "More pressure or less?"
• "Slower or faster?"
• "Should I keep doing exactly that?"

Turns out people are usually pretty good at telling us what they enjoy when we make it safe to answer honestly.

Confidence Starts Before You Start

Let's be honest: sometimes the biggest barrier isn't technique.

It's worrying about taste, smell, or whether everything is "normal."

A few things that can help:

• Showering together.
• Using flavored body-safe wipes for a quick refresh.
• Remembering that healthy bodies don't smell like flowers, and that's okay.
• Focusing on connection instead of perfection.

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The goal isn't perfection.

The goal is feeling comfortable, connected, and maybe having a little more fun than you expected.

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